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The
notion of Aiki implies having a sense
of the unfolding direction and intention
of a situation, blending with that
flow, and leading it to a positive
conclusion in a conscious and empowered
way.
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strive to assist our clients in applying
the subtle and underlying principles
of Aiki to themselves and their work-life
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There is a basic concept in psychology
when explaining people's reactions to
aggressive or threatening situations,
well-known as the "fight or flight'
response. This refers to the unconscious,
instinctive and learned reaction patterns
that we fall into when we perceive some
behavior as an attack or a threat. Simply
put, we seek to get away or to confront,
in an attempt to make things "safe."
There are many things in life that we
perceive, consciously or unconsciously,
as a threat. This creates conflict,
as it invokes the fight-or-flight response.
In times of conflict, we naturally establish
a negative relationship with the person
who initiates threatening behavior towards
us; a relationship between our vulnerability,
which is the part of us that can be
hurt, and the other person's "power,"
as defined by their behavior.
When someone grabs our wrist or attacks
us in Aikido practice, they are setting
up a negative relationship with us.
They are threatening our vulnerability.
We, in turn, ordinarily react with the
energy of whatever part of us we learned
to protect ourselves with. When this
happens, we get caught up in, and react
to, the "area of conflict",
rather than relate consciously to the
real source of the conflict.
What Aikido teaches us about this system
is that,
one, we can get in touch with and understand
the patterns that we go into to protect
ourselves, physical or emotional, and
two, that there is an alternative to
this behavior; that of conscious response
and choice, rather than unconscious
reaction.
In Aikido, we blend with the energy/intention/movement
of the aggressive act, out of a respect
for the underlying vulnerability on
both sides, and redirect it to a more
beneficial conclusion. When someone
"grabs our wrist" at the emotional
level, we don't have to "run",
we don't have to 'fight", we can
stay present and make clearer choices
about our behavior in accord with our
sense of the true needs of all involved.
Whenever you find yourself in a difficult
or stressful situation, returning to
a centered state is a good first step.
Our usual reactions are to fight, flee,
or freeze. The martial art of Aikido
offers another alternative, flow, which
translates readily into daily life applications.
When conflict occurs, Aikido teaches
us to flow by
embodying these principles:
Acknowledge - Be aware that you have
a conflict and what your feelings are
about that conflict. Appreciate the
other side's feelings and viewpoint
without labeling them or judging them
good or bad.
Accept - Show the other side that you
want to work out a solution. Take responsibility
for the fact that you are also part
of the conflict and that all sides are
in this together.
Adapt - Be willing to change and be
open to new ideas. Be able to consider
a wide range of solutions without excessive
judgment.
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Why
Do We Work With Nature ? |
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"I
go to nature to be soothed and
healed, and to have my senses
put in order." - John
Burroughs
"The senses, being the explorers
of the world, open the way to
knowledge." - Maria Montessori
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Working
with people in a setting which is out
of their natural and normal habitat offers
us the opportunity to experience and experiment
with the vast array of energy sources
available from nature and its interactivity.
Putting a team together in this overwhelming
environment reproduces the extremes
of emotion and passion available to
all.
Have you ever spent quality time in
nature, moments when you loved the grandeur
of a mountain, an impressive tree or
the freshness of the wind? Has the spectacle
of autumn colors, sunlit clouds or a
blanket of stars ever brought you joy?
The captivating enchantment in these
perfect moments and the spellbinding
connections we make with nature, are
our tools for helping us understand
the impact our emotional state has on
our own performance and over others.
Should we need to receive empowerment,
all of Nature's elements can work with
us.We learn that simply sitting along
the banks of a mountain stream, one
can feel the mountain chi (Energy) carried
by the stream flow. As it flows, it
brings us fresh sources of energy to
our mind and body. There is a basic
principle of working with Nature's chi:
where the mind goes, the chi follows.
Using this principle, we can gently
guide this natural energy to energize
us, storing the fresh chi in our "Center".
Various sources of emotional stretch
are visited and experienced which in
many cases can only be effectively resolved,
jointly and with unconditional trust.
Where and when interpersonal skills
fail, we address the outcome and alternatives.
Peoples feelings towards, and connection
to, their human and natural environment
have a direct outcome on the results
of the exercises, enhancing the understanding
and learning of where and how we influence
others.
Those resources nature has to offer
are explored and linked to a heightening
of our senses. In preparation for Wave
3 we develop an understanding of why
and where our senses are useful and
how to reacquire the use of many of
our 53 (! ) senses. The experience of
nature and its elements are enhanced
with a brief solo experience which can
be lengthened to an overnight bivouac
should the client situation so indicate.
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Why
Do We Use The Performing Arts ? |
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| Drama
therapy is the systematic and intentional
use of drama/theater processes and
products to achieve the therapeutic
goals of symptom relief, emotional
and physical integration, and personal
growth. |
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Drama therapy is an active, experiential
approach that facilitates the client's
ability to tell his/her story, solve
problems, set goals, express feelings
appropriately, achieve catharsis,
extend the depth and breadth of
inner experience, improve interpersonal
skills and relationships, and strengthen
the ability to perform personal
life roles while increasing flexibility
between roles. - National association
of drama therapists. |
Improvisational theater uses audience
or spontaneous suggestions to shape
the action that unfolds on stage. Unlike
conventional scripted theater, there
is this element of spontaneity and unpredictability
that makes improvisation a unique and
exciting experience for the performers
as well as the audience. Every performance
is completely different, and there's
an element of risk involved since there's
no guarantee that any given scene will
work out the way we expected.
The performing arts has touched many
people's lives and inspired many a dormant
or misguided creative spirit. This innate
part of each one of us yearns to have
expression, to be freed, to be heard,
to touch others. As many of you know,
finding the means to give voice to your
own unique being is one of life's greatest
gifts.
By letting down my defenses I
found that vulnerable yet magical spot
where one is pure. For the performance
to be real the performer has to be real,
coming from one's true self. -Participant
The warming up stage, helps the improvisers
loosened up, feel safe about taking
risks, develop trust and get the players
in synch. The exercises, focus on particular
aspects of the craft of improvisation,
and allow for players to focus on the
skills of environment, characters, listening,
story telling, interaction and impact
with audience.
The day can be prolonged into a highly
energized, creative and unique evening
event, where momentous experiences are
relived through the skills acquired
and openness achieved throughout an
Energy process. This is what company
myths and stories are borne from.
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